Lessons From Desert Man
The Small Church #3
Where is the Family of God?

Somewhere, there is a place where the cry of the child can still be heard. Somewhere, the Senior citizen is seen communicating wisdom to a hasty younger generation, and they're actually heard. Somewhere, a teenager sits with older people, and younger siblings, and smiles. Somewhere... but not here, not in church.

Somewhere, a successful young corporate executive hobnobs with a retired uneducated janitor. Somewhere, a widow finds solace in a group of young couples who gather around her to offer support. Somewhere, a lonely young single man is invited to dinner by a family which feels like his own. Somewhere... but not here, not in church.

Where is the Family of God?

We are the running generations - the busy generations which divide and conquer. We divide our generations into neat little homogeneous packages, and conquer the last bastion of our own sanity - the family.

Our faithful parents live out their last days in cold "care facilities." Our children are packed off to school at the start of the day, and come home to watch hours of "toons" and MTV.

There was a time when a family took care of its own, and children were taught by mothers and fathers, when they got home from school.

Where is the God of the Family?

In this broken world, full of broken generations, the small church has a unique ministry which it can fulfill in a very natural way. It can restore the intergenerational family ties, within the Family of God. When much of Christianity has followed the pattern of the world, and neatly packaged their churches into "age-appropriate", "felt-need", and other identification groups; the small church is not able to staff all the needs it encounters, and it probably should not attempt to do so.

But, the small church requires fellowship among the various age groups, by virtue of its make-up alone. The seniors mixed with teens, the singles mixed with the families, and the whole merry lot being together is what God had in mind, when He set up the church. This has more healing power in it, than a thousand 12 step programs (as good as they may be), because God has organized family relationships, and intergenerational fellowship for the purpose of bringing health to His people.

The small church is the place, where the cry of the child can still be heard in the midst of t he sermon, and the ushers don't run to hustle them out. The small church is the place, where that child can grow up and not have to say, "I grew up spending my Sundays in the church foyer."

May every small church look just like a family, and when it grows up to be large, may it still look like the Family of God.

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