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" Now I saw in my dream, that just as they had ended
this talk, they drew near to a very miry Slough
that was in the midst of the plain, and they, being
heedless, did both fall suddenly into the bog. The
name of the Slough was Despond. Here therefore they
wallowed for a time, being grievously bedaubed with
the dirt, and Christian, because of the burden that
was upon his back, began to sink in the mire."
In John Bunyan's classic work,
Pilgrim's Progress, Christian, the hero of the story
experienced this dilemma early in his journeys toward
the Celestial City. Yet, there are many of us, who,
as leaders of God's church, are trapped in a similar
pit of despair, despite the fact that we have walked
in the Kingdom for many years.
"Hope deferred makes the heart
sick." For many of us, this is the verse we live
by. Our plans have brought forth few results. Our
prayers have realized only the necessary; seldom
the fulfillment of our desires. For the small church
leader, this may mean that the hopes, prayers, plans,
and dreams for growth have been delayed long enough
to shake our faith at its very foundation. People
we have helped, have left us in times when it was
most inconvenient. Families we have cared for have
neglected any reciprocal return, and visitors with
whom we have invested our time, have not returned
to join us. How do we live under the weight of such
haunting memories. How do we surge forward, out
of that bogged-down feeling, which says, "This is
the way it will always be"? How can we be delivered
from that "Slough of Despond?"
1) Don't live in the past. The people
in our present often wear the faces of those from
the past. When we see a situation, or an individual
who reminds us of those who have wronged, or disappointed
us in past, we have the tendency to see a repeat
performance of our past failures in process. Only
by actively moving forward, with hope that the present
can be better than the past, are we able to see
people wearing their own faces, and not the faces
of those who have disappointed us.
2) Always remember the primary
purpose for your ministry. When the finances have
failed to meet the need, this may have been our
point of discouragement in the past. When the attendance
has declined once again, just when it seemed that
there might have been a break through, we might
have lost hope. When volunteers have not followed
through with their commitments, we may have been
overwhelmed. Oh, how I wish it was always so easy
to remember that ministry is about relationships.
It is not about the numbers, and the tasks which
surround me.
3) Look to Lord for your rewards.
Isn't this the real reason we become discouraged
many days? The work seems to be greater than the
results. Well, if you don't like that, then do something
else than ministry. The largest portion of our reward
comes much later, when we work for God.
4) Remember, nothing is impossible.
This is the true point of power against the onslaught
of despond. If we remember that God can do anything,
we will not be so quick to give up in the face of
overwhelming odds.
The Slough of Despond awaits every
Christian. It prepares itself to engulf every leader.
But, we need not wallow in its murky trenches. No
matter what troubles of the past have caused us
to give up hope, today is a new day, and our God
is as great, and as loving, as He has ever been.
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